Teenagers often fight with their parents. This is what Mike wrote to his parents after one of their fights. Read the letter.
Dear mum and dad,
How are you today?
Hope you are better than yesterday evening. I’m sorry for shouting and behaving badly.
I agree with you that I am at an awkward stage. I want to make my own decisions and choices. At the moment I feel you are showing too much interest in what I am thinking and doing. I need my independence. I am not a child anymore.
It annoys me that you control me in the same way you used to when I was younger. I can imagine it is sometimes hard for you to change. I agree with you that we need to talk to each other. But it’s not easy for me.
I was thinking about what would make me happier. Could you try to change a little?
Have an open mind. Be patient. I know you are interested in my life, but could you respect my privacy? I promise I will ask for your advice when I need it. Could we change some house rules? Let’s make them more reasonable. Growing up brings on some special circumstances.
Hope to see you in a good mood today.
Love,
Mike
P.S. Could I go to my friend’s party on Friday? Mum, don’t forget that my teen years will eventually come to an end!